When things go wrong ?

What do we do when things are not right? Sometimes we have this little voice in our head or some call it gut feelings that screams warning ... yet, we cannot actually put our finger on it ... Hmm some of the people I know, recently got caught up in these ugly situations ... I honestly feel for them - as I had been on that road before.

There is no handbook on surviving this, yet we can always turn to Allah the Almighty for strength and guidance. Families, friends and pets help too but the most important thing is you, yourself. Sad but true - I am sorry to say that if you are not strong, no one can help you to go through this. You need to do it for yourself, not for the kids or parents or siblings who depend on you. Because if you do it for others, you may hold them responsible if anything else went wrong - in time normally that happens.

Wish I have a magic wand that could impart what I had been through so that others can have some kind of 'shield' to survive it ... but hey, I am just a mortal who is also learning as I make mistakes again & again.

My prayers goes to all those out there who is going through one hell of a journey. May God bless you.