Monday, October 09, 2006

Of Man & Woman

Surprisingly the issue that I thought would be 'boring' { yawn yawn }, on the other hand became quite a 'hot' topic of discussion :)

Well, I am not trying to say that man is bad, woman is good :p but just to highlight the practices that has been going on around world. Just to fulfil some of my social obligations to make this world a better place :)

In order to understand the issue better perhaps I should enclosed another 'clip' taken from this marvellous book. This particular chapter talks about the masculine and feminine cultures. It is said that in a highly 'masculine' culture, men are viewed as assertive, oriented to material success and strong. While women on the other hand, are viewed as modest, focused on the quality of life and tender. In a highly 'feminine' culture, both men and women are encouraged to be modest, oriented to maintaining a quality of life and tender. The ten countries with the highest masculinity score are Japan, Austria, Venezuela, Italy, Switzerland, Mexico,Ireland, Jamaica,Great Britain and Germany.

As mentioned in the book, masculine cultures emphasize success and socialise their people to be assertive, ambitious and competitive. members of masculine cultures are thus more likely to confront conflicts directly and to competitively fight out any differences; they are more likely to emphasize win-lose conflict strategies.

Feminine cultures emphasize the quality of life and socialise their people to be modest and to emphasize close interpersonal relationships. Members of feminine cultures are thus more likely to emphasize compromise and negotiation in resolving conflicts; they are more likely to seek win-win solutions.

Organisations can also be viewed in terms of masculinity or femininity. Masculine organisations emphasize competitiveness and aggresiveness. They focus on the bottom line and reward their workers on the basis of their contribution to the organisation. Feminine organisation are less competitive and less aggresive. They are more likely to emphasize worker satisfaction and reward their workers on the basis of need; those who have large families, for example, may get better raises than the single people, even if the singles have contributed more to the organisation.


5 comments:

Arri said...

I am having a HUGE migraine over this

akeys said...

it's not hot (coz only 2 ppl discuss on the topic) hehehe..
and again, u're wrong (or maybe the author) on the masculine and feminine factor.. heh.. in these days, women are trying so hard to be equal to men.. what i meant is they 'demand' to be equal.. by what means..?? heh.. they tried to be 'macho', tried to 'i dont give a damn to the world', tried to be 'i can do it all by myself' etc.. lol.. it's funny btw.. and actually, there are no differences between masculine or feminine culture..
as u wrote about the way both masculine and feminine emphasize things, actually, in these days, both cultures did it all the same.. i've saw women in top managements applying the win-lose solutions and struggling to be better than men.. i've saw men in top managements doing worst than women..
and please.. think outside of the typical malays thinking.. men and women these days are standing at the equal level..
if u said that those with large families can earn more than singles, i bet no one wants to be single.. heh.. and the ones with large families can just 'goyang kaki'.. lol..

TyReen73 said...

My dear husband

It is NOT me who is saying all that - the author is by no means a 'malay' person in the first place

And I m sharing information not making up stories dear

Arri said...

eh, bila nak tukau post ni? tertunggu-tunggu lah pulak

Anonymous said...

salam!
perhaps in the book that u r refered
had made some research on that, i'm quite agree that man sometimes look more aggresive n assertive while women would seem to b modest n sensitive but not tender.generally, basicly it's like that.maybe it's becoz women has more estrogen compare to man,that can make women feel more sensitive.maybe that is also the reason y man n women always have totally different idea. beside the way man n woman find out solutions also quite different.man always go for the simple solutions whilst women will choose more complicated way.
but....talking bout man n women is a subjective things.nowadays.. anything can happened.for example, there are many successful headmisnistres handling many man as teachers.
yes,maybe they'll handle it in different ways than man but it was successful-its prooven!